Nacanieli Sikinairai Tuivavalagi

Nacanieli “Nate” Sikinairai Tuivavalagi (affectionately known as Naca to his family in Fiji), 42, of Novi, Michigan, passed away on July 18, 2025. Born in Suva, Fiji, Nate was raised in the village of Vunivaivai by his beloved aunties, Tavaita and Meredani. With warmth and care, they instilled in him the values of compassion, generosity, and strength that shaped him into the man he became. Nate attended Marist Brothers High School in Suva before immigrating to the United States, where he settled in Honolulu, Hawaii, with his mother, Ana. During this time, he proudly represented his heritage by performing as the Fijian Chief at the Polynesian Cultural Center. In 2005, driven by a desire to serve his adopted country, he enlisted in the United States Army. Nate met the love of his life, Lisa Marie (McComas) Tuivavalagi, in 2006 while stationed at Fort Hood, Texas. Their connection was immediate and deep, leading them to marry on March 17, 2007, in Plano, Texas. Their love was not just passionate, but steadfast, built on an unbreakable bond that endured all things. Nate and Lisa were not only husband and wife, but each other’s greatest source of comfort, strength, and understanding. Their marriage was not defined by perfection, but by devotion, the kind of love that weathers every season of life, grows through challenges, and never wavers. Nate adored Lisa, and she adored him, their lives deeply intertwined in a love that transcended circumstance, time, and even words. Through it all, Nate’s sense of duty remained strong, leading him to serve his country with the same commitment he gave to his family. During his time in the Army, Nate served as a Combat Engineer, achieving the rank of Sergeant (SGT) and earning the respected designation of Sapper. He deployed to Iraq and Afghanistan, dedicating 10 years of honorable service to his country before retiring. In recognition of his dedication, he was awarded the Army Commendation Medal, the Navy and Marine Corps Achievement Medal, and the Non-Article 5 NATO Medal. Nate remained deeply proud of his military service and cherished the lifelong bonds he formed with his fellow soldiers. After completing his military career, Nate and Lisa settled in Novi, Michigan, where they raised their three beautiful children—Matteo, Stella, and Violet. A playful and devoted father, Nate savored every moment spent with them, whether through special outings, everyday moments, or simply making them laugh. He spoiled them endlessly and would do anything to see them smile. Each of his children carries forward a part of him: Matteo inherited his joyful spirit, Stella his gentle sweetness, and Violet, always his little sidekick, his generous heart. Nate continued to grow both personally and professionally, earning his Bachelor’s degree in Social Studies and Secondary Education from Madonna University in Livonia, Michigan. He went on to build a fulfilling career as a Contract Security Specialist and Security Trainer at Rock Security (Rocket Companies), a role he deeply enjoyed and took great pride in. Outside of work, Nate deeply valued the Fijian tradition of drinking kava, a ritual he loved sharing with friends and family as a way to honor his heritage. He was especially passionate about rugby, proudly supporting the Fiji National Rugby Team, and also enjoyed American football, always cheering for the Dallas Cowboys. More than anything, Nate loved gathering with family and friends over bon fires, laughter, and meaningful moments. Nate is survived by his loving wife, Lisa; their three young children, Matteo, Stella, and Violet; his mother, Ana Moce; his aunt, Meredani (Win) Straube; cousins, Metuisela (Roshan) Tuivavalagi and their children, as well as Losalini Tuivavalagi, along with many dear friends and extended family members. He was preceded in death by his beloved aunt, Tavaita Ligica, whose love and guidance profoundly influenced his life, and his grandfather, Josua Ligica, whom he deeply admired. Visitation will be held on Wednesday, July 23rd from 2 PM until 9 PM at Vermeulen-Sajewski Funeral Home, 46401 Ann Arbor Road West (Between Sheldon and Beck) Plymouth, Michigan 48170. A Kava ceremony will be held at 6:30 PM. The Funeral Service will be held on Thursday, July 24th 11 AM, also at the funeral home. Nate will be laid to rest with full military honors at Great Lakes National Cemetery in recognition of his dedicated service to his country. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that memorial donations be made to Sai Prema Foundation Fiji, an organization dedicated to providing free heart surgeries and medical care to underprivileged children throughout Fiji. This cause reflects Nate’s love for his homeland and his enduring heart for others. To donate, please visit: giftoflifefiji.com (No account required; credit cards and PayPal accepted.) Nate’s legacy of love, courage, and generosity will continue through those who knew him.

Nacanieli Sikinairai Tuivavalagi

March 1, 1983 - July 18, 2025